“Blest
Be the Tie That Binds”
Our
family joined GPUMC in 1985. We immediately joined the choir and made
friends with Heidi and Charlie Van Becelaere and Dave and Sue DeWitt.
The next Sunday Lisa Thomas asked if I knew how to make lasagna. I
said of course. She then asked if I coule make it for 100!
Thus
began the lifelong friendships we have cherished. Our children were
close in age but attended different schools. They bonded together and
their friendships continue to be an important part of their lives.
We
started camping together the week after school started and 38 years
later, we are still camping on that weekend with more friends and
grandchildren. We supported Lisa as she helped organize the first
trip to Lake Louise some 35 years ago. Heidi and Charlie shepherded
our children through years of youth group helping to guide them
through middle and high school. Dave Thomas was always there with
support and a smile during all our activities. The ladies were part
of the girl crew that painted the hallways, office, pastor and
associate pastor’s offices, and the Wesley Room so that new
flooring could be laid after the new sanctuary was built.
We
have vacationed together, attend work camps, VIM trips, and other
church activities. Exploring frying turkeys, homemade corn dogs,
angel food cake, wedge salad, and other culinary delights were not
only tasty but fun. We have supported each other through toilet
training, school activities, illnesses, and crisis involving our
children, the passing of our parents, and continue to celebrate our
love for each other.
I
became ill this past May and had a stay at the hospital, the first in
42 years that shocked us all. Naturally, my beloved Fred, sister
Nancy, our boys, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren came to my aid
with support, house cleaning, and meals through July. My greatest
gift was without asking Lisa stepped in with her nursing skills so
that Fred could go back to work and she assisted with steps and
showers, treats and compassion. Sue came with our favorite tuna
sandwiches and spent time with me sharing stories and listening to my
story. She also babysat me when I could not be alone. Heidi and
Charlie shared homemade Angel Food Cake made by their
daughter-in-law, Mariam, and brought communion. Heidi confessed the
real reason they came over was to “see my face.”
We
do not see each other as regularly as we used to since our children
got married and some grandchildren arrived to take up our time. For
sure when the time arises and we need each other we are still there.
There have been many blessings since becoming part of this church and
I am grateful for these special friends. We would have never met if
it were not for attending this church.
Lynn
Van de Putte