Family Ties
Read: 1 Kings 19:11-12
My family’s roots stretch back to the East Coast, where four brothers began their journeys. The two oldest stayed connected to that part of the country through their high school and college years, eventually building successful careers as college professors—one in business, the other in pediatrics.
Peter and I, the younger pair, became the Midwesterners. We built our lives in the Central time zone, shaped by the steadiness and groundedness that the Midwest seems to cultivate. Peter remained in Northwest Indiana, and over the years we grew closer—especially after our mother passed away in 2021 and we were entrusted together as co-executors of her estate.
During that same season, Peter entered a difficult divorce, complete with the emotional turbulence that so often accompanies such transitions. Two of his sons distanced themselves, while his daughter stayed connected. In the midst of it all, I found myself stepping in—sometimes by circumstance, sometimes by a calling. I was present when one of the hardest moments came to a head, and from that point forward I stayed close, listening without judgment, offering steadiness, and walking with him as he rebuilt his life. Today he is moving forward with courage, navigating both challenges and new opportunities.
But the deeper story—the one that reveals God’s quiet, surprising grace—is the bond between Peter and our daughter, Katrina. She lives in Mt. Pleasant, and from childhood she has been his favorite niece, just as he has always been her favorite uncle. Their connection has never been forced; it simply was, and it endured.
Peter is a straight shooter—emotionally, spiritually, and even literally, as a skilled marksman and conservationist through Ducks Unlimited. Katrina’s faith expression differs from his, yet somehow they meet on common ground, finding mutual respect and genuine family affection. Throughout his difficult season, her steady presence became a lifeline—an anchor of encouragement, compassion, and family loyalty.
The Lord works in ways we often don’t anticipate. Sometimes His grace arrives not through grand gestures, but through the quiet constancy of a niece who calls, listens, and loves. Their bond is a reminder that family ties, when nurtured by God’s Spirit, can become sources of healing and hope far beyond our understanding.
Dave DeWitt