“Blest Be the Tie That Binds”
Our family joined GPUMC in 1985. We immediately joined the choir and made friends with Heidi and Charlie Van Becelaere and Dave and Sue DeWitt. The next Sunday Lisa Thomas asked if I knew how to make lasagna. I said of course. She then asked if I coule make it for 100!
Thus began the lifelong friendships we have cherished. Our children were close in age but attended different schools. They bonded together and their friendships continue to be an important part of their lives.
We started camping together the week after school started and 38 years later, we are still camping on that weekend with more friends and grandchildren. We supported Lisa as she helped organize the first trip to Lake Louise some 35 years ago. Heidi and Charlie shepherded our children through years of youth group helping to guide them through middle and high school. Dave Thomas was always there with support and a smile during all our activities. The ladies were part of the girl crew that painted the hallways, office, pastor and associate pastor’s offices, and the Wesley Room so that new flooring could be laid after the new sanctuary was built.
We have vacationed together, attend work camps, VIM trips, and other church activities. Exploring frying turkeys, homemade corn dogs, angel food cake, wedge salad, and other culinary delights were not only tasty but fun. We have supported each other through toilet training, school activities, illnesses, and crisis involving our children, the passing of our parents, and continue to celebrate our love for each other.
I became ill this past May and had a stay at the hospital, the first in 42 years that shocked us all. Naturally, my beloved Fred, sister Nancy, our boys, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren came to my aid with support, house cleaning, and meals through July. My greatest gift was without asking Lisa stepped in with her nursing skills so that Fred could go back to work and she assisted with steps and showers, treats and compassion. Sue came with our favorite tuna sandwiches and spent time with me sharing stories and listening to my story. She also babysat me when I could not be alone. Heidi and Charlie shared homemade Angel Food Cake made by their daughter-in-law, Mariam, and brought communion. Heidi confessed the real reason they came over was to “see my face.”
We do not see each other as regularly as we used to since our children got married and some grandchildren arrived to take up our time. For sure when the time arises and we need each other we are still there. There have been many blessings since becoming part of this church and I am grateful for these special friends. We would have never met if it were not for attending this church.
Lynn Van de Putte
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