Saturday, April 12, 2014

April 12, 2014

Love One Another


(This is a slightly edited version of an email from Ron to a bunch of friends who descended upon the Draper abode for a Fall cleanup.)

Well hi all, (and this really is to all of you: everyone who has prayed for us, cooked for us, transported us, made blankets for us, visited us, and thanks to all for all the cards and well wishes, we passed a lot of time reading and savoring each card that comes in. The outpouring of help for us is truly something to behold.)

Yet again you've humbled us beyond words. After everyone went home, I took the Lovely & Gracious for a ride in her power chair around the property. Needless to say it was quite a ride. As she looked at the beds around the patio she exclaimed Oh My God!!! Then the tears, the laughing, the tears, more OMG and then the quivering in her chair. As we went around front, and the West side she couldn't believe all that was done in a few hours, neither could I for that matter. As you all know we strive and do a constant little cleanup to keep our place up to the way you normally see it. This year we watched as one bed and one bush after another turned into something we didn't even want to look at. This was clearly the best Fall cleanup Everrr!! As we went farther around and out to the back and looked at our house from the back of the pond there was more OMG, lots of crying tears of joy, quivering, and more OMGs!.

Then to the barn, she wailed a pretty good one there, OMG, and when she saw all that was done and how clean the floor was, more shaking. Then she saw the drill press and band saw, (her favorite old territory) and that's when the caterwauling started. Then she saw the gym equipment from the basement set up for her, more caterwauling now with wailings of how can we ever repay everyone?? Just keep being you and getting better was about all I could say.

For months now our minds have been literally paralyzed with fear and anxiety over the future, it seems were running a relentless gauntlet of menacing obstacles, and yet with God's love and the support of all of you, we continue to persevere. Saturday was the first time in 10 months that we were able to slip the tangled bonds of fear and spend several hours just being Ron & Jeri with friends. You didn't just clean our yard, you've cleansed our souls. Later on after dark I dumped a wheelbarrow of logs on the fire and spent a while with the Lord trying to figure out what we ever did to deserve such good friends as all of you. It occurred to me that the things we've gained, are of greater value than what we've lost. You've filled us to the depths of our souls with an overwhelming sensation of humble gratitude, the magnitude of which is beyond my ability to describe in words, I pray that in time it will show with deeds.

Through it all, we strive to do something each day that we couldn't do the day before. I get the joy of rediscovering my wife with each new sunrise.

Thank you all so very much for your support, we shall endeavor to not disappoint,
Ron & Jeri Draper

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