Tuesday, March 15, 2016

March 15, 2016

The Day Faith Told Me About; Part 5 Wrapping for Christ
The two most important days in a person’s life are the day you’re born and the day you find out why. (Mark Twain)
We’ve had a lot of help along the way in the last few years, not the least of which is from the membership at GPUMC. We’ve also had several dozen attendant care girls come to help for a while. Our favorite is Michelle. She’s closer to our age than most, and has been within 2 classes of becoming a registered nurse so she’s got a pretty good head on her shoulders. She laughs easily and doesn’t let our particular ways get to her. Jeri and I are both very detail oriented and OCD is our favorite understatement. Michelle, however, not so much. Good enough is usually a little better than good enough, which usually leads to some more of the aforementioned laughter, when most of the girls would just get mad and leave.
One day Michelle was helping Jeri wrap some Christmas gifts. Jeri was trying to explain how to wrap them so there were no wrinkles in the pretty wrapping paper and so the seams and tape wouldn’t show and how to put on a ribbon etc. Michelle usually just puts them in a pretty store bought gift bag and calls it good.
Then that little angel I’ve written about started speaking through Jeri. She started explaining to Michelle how she thinks of the person she’s wrapping this gift for while she’s wrapping it, and how she hopes they’ll respond when seeing it after removing the wrapping. She thinks of how she came to choose this gift for the person and how she envisions their using it. It’s a form of prayer for the person receiving the gift, not unlike tying a knot in a prayer quilt. It’s like any other simple labor task, and it all depends on what you put into it that determines what others will get out of it. She was no longer explaining the mechanical process of wrapping, Jeri was delivering a short sermon on the love instilled in a gift, and so the care it deserves during its final preparation. I was reminded of the old “wax on, wax off” in the Karate Kid movie. Michelle still didn’t quite get it, preferring to drop it in a bag and get to the next thing. With one last unmarked gift box to go, I asked Michelle to take particular care to wrap this one exactly the way she would like to receive a gift and see how well she could do. That one worked out pretty well, and that was a good thing because without knowing it, Michelle was wrapping the gift we had gotten for her, I had her wrap her own gift.
At the end of her last shift before Christmas, we exchanged gifts with her and also with Jeri’s nurse and her driver. Michelle laughed out loud for a while when she saw the one I handed to her. We all enjoyed a good start to Christmas and the story of the wrapping lesson gave us all something important to ponder as we celebrate the coming of our Messiah with the gift of giving.


Prayer: May we all remember those who have given to us, and we pray for our continued gifts to all who need.


Ron Draper; Christmas Day, 2015

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