Friday, March 22, 2013

March 22, 2013

On Relationship


I often reflect on the subject of relationship, and would like to share a few thoughts on this topic. I use the singular form of the word, and not the plural, as I am referring to our one essential relationship – our relationship to God, or to life itself, and not to the “individual” relationships that characterize our daily experiences.

We normally think of humanity as a collection of individuals living at different times and in different places within the space/time framework. The teachings of the world constantly reinforce individuality and therefore separation, rather than the shared life essence that unifies all that God created. In the first account of creation in Genesis we read: “So God created humankind in his image, in the image of God he created them.” and in John 4:24: “God is spirit and those who worship him must worship in spirit and in truth.” What, then, is our essential nature – physical or spiritual? God is holy and wholly loving, despite opposing images that have arisen out of minds given over to fear. The attribution of human qualities to the divine reinforces the image of an anthropomorphic God (i.e., “the man upstairs”). Since God is pure love, his creation must also be imbued with the same quality, a point which leads to a fundamental shift in perception. Respect for and appreciation of the holiness of life dramatically changes how we experience it. Sharing and giving rather than taking and having reflect the abundance of creation and the unconditional love of God.

Some time ago, in a scholarly publication devoted to the emerging fields of science and spirituality, I read an article that posits the concept that cooperation and not competition is nature’s way. Numerous examples were given by the author that support a very different view of the interchange between living organisms, especially in the “lower” realms of plants and animals. I was intrigued by the cooperation that resulted in shared well-being. I well remember the first time I saw a photograph of the Earth taken from outer space. Here was a striking image of a relatively small planet, covered in blue and white, floating in the immense blackness of space, and home to billions of human beings. “We are all in this together!,” I thought. And we’re going to sink or swim in like manner.

A cursory glance of human history reveals endless conflict, sorrow, and tragedy. Our preoccupation with personal ambition typically results in conflict and struggle. These hallmarks of the ego practically blind us to the real world of love and benevolence, which is, of course, a reflection on Earth of the kingdom of Heaven. The magnificent and compellingly attractive teachings of Jesus Christ illumine our paths and reveal this higher dimension if we allow him to rule in our hearts and minds. For what reason have we been placed on Earth? What is the true meaning of love? How can it be defined? In truth it certainly bears no resemblance to “love” as portrayed in popular culture!

World conditions are deteriorating at an alarming rate. Worrisome environmental degradation, stunning disregard for the sanctity of live, and the shocking results of a culture of greed and violence are daily news items. Into this dark and seemingly hopeless situation has come a Savior. All across the globe, those who have forgotten not their divine heritage are being called upon to follow in Jesus’ footsteps and to be, as it were, the saviors of the world. Let us gladly exchange illusions of grandiosity and specialness for God’s truth, and willingly allow the Holy Spirit and Jesus to be our sole, unified Guide. “This is my Son, my Chosen; listen to him!” (Luke 9:35).

And so, what shall our relationship to life be? This question merely scratches the surface of this topic and is intended to be a springboard for personal reflection and corporate discussion. Let us never forget that as one sees a brother or sister, one sees oneself. In him or her one finds oneself or loses oneself.

Most sincerely, Doug Dykstra

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